Aging Parents Preparation
This playbook helps adult children sit down with a parent and quietly organize what matters — before it has to be done in a rush.
Start small · No account needed to read this guide
One manageable first step.
Ask your parent what they want the family to know and where their important papers are. Make a contact list together before trying to gather every document.
How Plans & Keepsakes helps
Start with a conversation, not a pile of forms.
Use this guide to talk about a parent’s preferences and locate important records while they can help you understand them. Keep copies in storage you control (see the Records Guide); an attorney or qualified advisor helps with creating or updating legal documents.
What that looks like in everyday life
If your parent needs more help at home, the family can refer to their written preferences and find the right care or financial contact, rather than guessing what they would want.
What you can do with Plans & Keepsakes
Make room for their wishes and their story.
Start while your parent can tell you what matters. The guide helps you find existing records and keep their own words, without turning every conversation into legal paperwork.
Existing legal and financial papers
Powers of attorney, healthcare directives, insurance, and advisor information: keep a copy in your own secure storage (see the Records Guide).
Why it matters: Know where to look and whom to contact. Keeping a copy does not grant authority to act or replace the original.
Preferences for everyday care
Write down routines, care instructions, and preferences for how they want to live, and keep them in your own storage.
Why it matters: Give family helpers something to refer to instead of guessing what your parent would want.
Guided family storytelling
Use writing prompts and recorded story interviews to capture memories, experiences, and advice.
Why it matters: The family keeps their voice and perspective—not only the documents they leave behind.
What to gather
Gather what applies to your family and keep important records in storage you control (see the Records Guide). It does not need to be complete to be useful.
- Powers of attorney (medical and financial)
- Living will and healthcare directives
- Long-term care and insurance information
- List of financial accounts and advisors
- Trusted family contacts and key holders
- Wishes for living arrangements
Start with a conversation. Build your Plans & Keepsakes together.
This guide is free to read. Create an account when you are ready to keep a home inventory and private family memories. Use this checklist while you gather records in your own storage. Playbooks and guides are general organizing guidance, not legal, financial, medical or insurance advice.
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